“Doctor, I have a question” … The Lost Art of Speaking Up in The Exam Room
Let’s be honest—visiting the doctor can make you feel anxious and sometimes overwhelmed. The cold room, the short visit, the rush of information, and that little voice inside whispering “Will they actually listen to me?” But here’s the truth: your voice matters. And learning how to use it with confidence and grace could mean the difference between a diagnosis missed and a life saved.
At Etiquette MD, we believe health etiquette is more than saying “please” and “thank you.” It’s about mastering the art of communication in healthcare spaces—for yourself, your children, and even your aging parents. This is your medical journey. You have every right to understand it, question it, and advocate for yourself with confidence.
Why Health Etiquette Matters
Poor communication is one of the top causes of medical errors. When patients don’t feel heard—or don’t know how to speak up—they may leave confused, misinformed, or even angry. Now we must adcknowledge that providers are facing demands from healthcare higher-ups, juggling tight schedules and managing growing caseloads which makes clarity and mutual respect even more critical.
Health etiquette bridges that gap. It teaches you how to:
Ask questions without fear
Speak up without being aggressive
Stay prepared and organized for every appointment
Guide your children or loved ones in doing the same
The Power of Preparation
Imagine walking into your appointment with a plan.
You’ve written down your symptoms. You have three clear questions. You understand your medications. You’re not just a patient—you’re a partner in your care.
That’s what Etiquette MD is designed to do. Think of us as you health companion, giving you curated questions to ask, pocket-sized communication cards, reminders about lab results, and etiquette tips to make the most of every visit.
Teaching the Next Generation
We’re also proud to introduce our newest initiative: Medical Manners for Kids & Teens.
From learning how to talk to doctors, to knowing what to do in an emergency room, we’re raising a generation of health-literate, confident communicators.
Whether your child is managing asthma, anxiety, or simply going in for a routine check-up, we help them feel less anxious and more empowered.
Let’s Change the Culture
Speaking up shouldn’t feel like stepping out of line. It should feel like taking your rightful place at the table. At Etiquette MD, we’re creating a culture where grace meets assertiveness, and every patient feels seen, heard, and respected.
Because asking questions isn't rude.
Being prepared isn’t extra.
And taking charge of your health is always in style